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Tips on how to keep your divorce civil and non-confrontational

Family Solicitors in Amersham

Divorce is often a messy, heated and expensive affair, but it does not have to be. The sooner your divorce is finalised, the sooner you can heal properly without the legal implications of decoupling looming over your head.

The intent of getting married was to stay married for the rest of your life, now that you are facing another reality, it is reasonable to feel betrayed and harbour resentment toward the person causing you all the hurt. That said, for the sake of your sanity and to protect your children, you should try to remain polite and civil to each other to ensure an amicable end to your marriage that will not cost you the earth.

Learn the secrets to a swift and painless divorce by consulting with our legal firm, Coyle White Devine, family solicitors in Amersham.

Be level headed with your soon-to-be-ex

Try to finalise your divorce out of the courtroom. This decision will save you time and money – the last thing you want to be doing is paying lawyer bills long after the ink on your divorce papers has dried.

You might have a personal vendetta against your ex-partner, but acting rashly by opting for sole custody out of spite, might result in an ensuing legal battle that you might not even win at the end of the day. A point to take away is that there is no winner or loser when it comes to divorce.

When it comes to splitting up your assets, be open and honest

Neglecting to tell your family solicitor in Amersham or estranged spouse about a stash of money hidden away is never a good strategy. This might be your first experience with divorce, but a divorce attorney knows the signs to look out for and are very good at finding concealed money.

Rather than being penalised for not being transparent, be open and honest from the start.

Learn some legal lingo and hire a lawyer for the rest

Knowing the difference between the various types of properties will help you protect your assets. Separate property is what you previously owned before marriage, or what you have inherited during the marriage, that is solely yours. Marital properties are the items and assets that you and your spouse acquired while married.

Equitable distribution is a fair or equitable dividing of assets which does not necessarily equate to a 50/50 split. Usually, a court judge will only divide property this way regarding items bought or acquired during the marriage.

A lawyer referring to the ‘best interests of your child’ is an umbrella term that will determine matters of custody. This involves where and with whom your offspring will live (meaning the custodial parent), who pays child support and visitation rights of the non-custodial parent.

There will be many legal terms thrown at you that could intimidate you during your divorce proceedings, which is why it is advisable to hire a family solicitor in Amersham to simplify complicated legal terms, making them easier to understand and digest.

Getting divorced is a highly stressful and emotionally taxing situation – you can use all the help you can get. The road would be a little less rocky under our expert guidance.

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